In beta
the 143
Every dating profile shows how you look. None of them show how you land.
Single Player is open. The Somatic Mirror takes three voice notes and tells you what people feel in the first minute with you.
30 sec × 3 notes
One take. Always.
The game
Three modes. One of them is open.
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Single Player
Playable now
Birthday, optional Human Design, three notes, a reading. Easy obstacles. Voice, not a profile.
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Two-Player
Coming
A code you share with someone you already met.
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Multiplayer
Coming
What is this?
Dating on the apps has become a game. But it’s a bad game.
The 143 is a different game. You start in Single Player, on your own, with a mirror instead of a lineup.
Single Player is a mirror, not a matchmaker. Nobody is picking anybody here yet.
Unfinished on purpose. The product will change.
How it works
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Your birthday
So we can get under your wiring. Time and place, if you know them, unlock a few lines about how you date.
Not a chart. Skip time or place and you still get the notes and the Mirror.
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Three voice notes
Thirty seconds each. Something you love. A small peeve. What home feels like.
One take, never coached. There are no better takes.
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The Somatic Mirror
A reading about a minute later. One snapshot at a time, then the whole thing.
We measure the live voice, delete the audio, keep the reading.
Why do this
- Know how you actually come across — the relief of not guessing anymore.
- Thirty seconds of your real voice says more than a profile ever will.
- You can’t perform for the mirror. That’s why it works.
- No feed, no browsing, no scoreboard. A no nobody ever has to watch.
Three notes
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The Spark
something you love
Something you love. A person, a place, a ritual. The first thing. Not the impressive one.
This is where you come alive.
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The Friction
an everyday peeve
A small everyday peeve. The kind you’d mutter in the car, not the one you’d put on a form.
This is the snag, not the wound.
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The Anchor
what home feels like
What home feels like. A room, an hour, a person. Wherever you actually land.
This is home.
The Mirror reads all three at once.
Why this exists
Before we had names
we had a laugh
For me, it helped to know Cassie is a slow processor, compared to my hummingbird brain. I realized when I give her time to take in my words, and pay attention to the emotions of my own, she melts into me.
— Robert
Why “143”
143 is pager code for I love you. One letter, four letters, three letters.
Single Player
Try the betaUnfinished on purpose.
Adults only. We don’t scrape social accounts. No one gets called “verified.”